Fear
is that strong, uncontrollable kind of, unpleasant emotion caused by actual or perceived
danger or threat. Your ability to confront, deal with and act in spite of your
fears is the keys to happiness and success. One of the best exercises you can
practice is to identify a person or situation in your life of which you are
afraid and resolve to deal with that fear situation immediately. Do not allow
it to make you unhappy for another minute. Below are some ways to tackle your fears no matter what it seems to be.
IDENTIFY YOUR
FEARS
When
you identify a fear, it could be fear of taking risk, fear of the unknown, fear
of falling in love, fear of oh am I going to be successful, fear of not believing in yourself, fear of even finding
true happiness and so many more base on individual, identify and discipline yourself to move towards your fear, it will gradually grow smaller, as it does grow smaller
your confidence grows, your fears lose their control over you, but when
you back away from a fear inducing situation or person, your fears grows larger
and larger, and it dominates your thinking and feeling, preoccupies you during
the day and often keeps you awake at night too.
ADDRESS YOUR
FEARS
The
only way to deal with fear is to address it head on, remind yourself that
denial is not a river in Egypt and obstacles are trials to be overcome. The natural tendency of many people is to deny
that they have a problem caused by fear of some kind and they are afraid of confronting
it. In turn it becomes a major source of stress, unhappiness, insomnia and other
psychosomatic illness.
The
companion of fear is worry. Like twin brothers, fear and worry go around together.
The real antidote or cure for fear or worry is discipline, and addressing it purposefully or intentionally
in the direction of your goals. Get so busy working on your goals or the
solutions to your problems that you have no time to be afraid or to worry about
anything.
PRACTICE CONTINUOUS
COURAGE
Life
is a circle, it goes on and on, new fears, challenging situation goes on and on too, but at every stage of life when you
practice the self discipline of courage and force yourself to face any fear inducing situation in your
life, your self esteem rises, your self respect increases, and our sense of
personal pride grows. You eventually reach the point in life when you are not
afraid of anything, even in challenging situation you tend to understand that, When it knocks you down, you will rise over and over again. No giving up, no quitting, always Persistent, who said you can't achieve your dream carrier, job, family, house, health and fitness, and so many more, don't let fear tame you down. Practice intentional courage YOU CAN DO IT!
Fear
is discouragement, it limits you to a point causing you to be stagnant day in day out without being effective and efficient towards achieving your goals. Because in life You will get opportunities at things so great they scare you senselessly but because you have no freaking clue how they are going to turnout, you either jump that chasm and into the fullness of your potential - or you stay behind in fear's comfy little lie, where you can watch your dreams on the other side slip away from you. Resolve to confront the situation and put fear behind you. The Choice is yours.
Hope it helps.
Hope it helps.
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