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HEART BROKEN........JUST DO THIS

Trust me, Its your starting point because the things that you have lost are finite but the things that you still have the possibility to find are infinite. Your imagination can lead you to places that are full of happiness and love.Optimism is the most important thing. The day you make yourself understand that somewhere out there in the world, something good awaits you; things will start to get better for you. Life is not an easy path, its tricky business. But you’ll feel more proud of yourself for bearing the hardships than rejoicing in the happy times.


I finally saw the good in the heartbreak, the importance of emotional independence after forced freedom and I finally knew why it happened: it happened because I deserved better. All of it was destined to happen for me to know that there are men better than the man I loved and there is love truer than the love I was given, or spared of. All of it took place to show me that I deserved better.

Now that I look back, I only feel like thanking the guy who left me crying on the floor and did not think it right to console me. I want to thank him for leaving me, for sparing me of his incomplete love and letting me have the world for myself. My mind is a much clearer place now, with no imaginary happy places and no trees to chirp around, my idea of love has evolved and I want to thank him for it.

I am ready for all the storms and I can bear heavy showers only to rise up stronger, I can sort out between love and lust and I can see what is good for me, and I want to thank him for it.

If you truly commit to positive affirmations, planning ahead on your day, and journaling, your single life will start to feel so valuable that you would never give it up for anything short of unconditional love. But until you discover that security in yourself, you will keep on falling for all the wrong people. Just like I used to.

So, stay focused on bringing out your best self.

If you think you’re ready, just start today. And if you think you’re not ready, work on getting yourself ready. This is the one and only life you’re getting and you NEED to find true happiness in it. So mark it on your calendar- one year of staying single, starting from today. One year of becoming an expert of your own self. One year of providing for your own needs and wants. One year of truly fulfilling yourself. One year of overcoming all your insecurities. One year of discovering your true calling. And one year of living your life to the absolute fullest!

Just take a moment to think of all the people who die without ever getting the chance to fully live or love. What exactly will your life look like in 5 years if you don’t take off this one year to be complete?
Do you feel like you’re ready now? Good! Here is all you’ll have to do:

1.      Start every day with affirmations.

The first thought on your mind the minute you wake up in the morning is going to pave the way for the second, the third, the 42nd, the 90th, and so on. Make sure all these thoughts are empowering. Focus on things like how confident, valuable, capable, useful, kind, worthy, generous, independent, happy, dependable, joyful, bold, adventurous, loving, and secure you are.

Keep pumping yourself up with all these positive affirmations, especially in the times when you feel really low.

A lot of people tend to lose track of their thoughts which disrupts their lives, and continues to become their words, habits, actions, and fate. Whatever it is that you want or need to be in life, affirm that before you get out of bed in the morning. Then, keep building on those thoughts the entire day.

If you don’t keenly choose to think of positive affirmations, your subconscious mind will start to take over with preprogrammed statements- which will usually be negative. So keep flooding yourself with conscious motivation from morning till night. Change your thoughts to change your life!

2.      Plan your day ahead.


Every morning, write down all the things you need to do to become the best version of yourself. After the positive affirmations, take some time to reflect on the things you can accomplish in order to excel in your hobbies, your profession, and your personal development. Create a list, the tackle each item on it throughout the day, checking them off as you accomplish them, congratulate yourself on the efforts, and motivating yourself along the way.

If you feel like you’re having doubts about what to write down, just go back to your basic human needs: health, security, happiness, doing the things you love, feeling proud of the things you do, making a difference in people’s lives, being independent and providing for yourself.

Try to think of challenges that will help bring out the best in you. This way, you will never look for someone else to do your jobs.
Sometimes it pays to stay alone for  a while to enable you figure out what you really want in life.
I hope it helps you.
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