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WHILE EVERYONE IS GETTING MARRIED…WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING WHILE AWAITING YOURS


 20 Cosas que tienes que hacer con tu pareja, al menos una vez en la vida:



If you never learned to find your happiness alone, you won’t be finding it in your marriage. If you never learned to love yourself while you were single, you won’t suddenly start loving yourself after marriage. If you never found your true self before marriage, you’re not going to find it after marriage either. If you can’t change the world while been single, you won’t even be able to change the television channel. While waiting for your time to get married cultivate and inculcate these into your personal development and growth.

 
     (Analyzing) Your ‘type’ will change significantly with time
 Especially by the time you reach your mid to late twenties. You will start to look for deeper and more concrete qualities in a prospective partner with honesty, integrity, and sense of responsibility being on the top of your list, instead of just choosing someone who is fun to be with, someone whose looks is charming, am not saying all these are not good but you find out you need something more and deeper.
You will start to appreciate the kind of partner who is capable of having meaningful conversations about life, about family, about any problems you have, and even about the work you do. Because as we grow up, the things that matter most to us change significantly, we definitely transforming from dreamland.
 
Discovering the right career path
Pushing yourself to discover the right career path to follow in life will be one of the most rewarding gifts you will ever give to yourself. Because when you finally do, the right career will constantly provide you with something to look forward to.
It will provide you the motivation to keep growing and learning new things in life. It will make you a better and much happier person. And you will never have to depend on just ‘love’ to keep you happy.
 
     Learn from peoples Experience
Learn from experiences as modern dating forms truly sucks. But with every new dating disaster you encounter, you end up learning one more thing about yourself and even about the kind of person you’re actually looking for. You also start to learn to love yourself more. 
 
And you learn that sometimes, it’s okay to choose being alone over being with a person who can’t even treat you right, or a person who doesn’t really want to define the relationship.
 
      Invest in a few good friends
Your friends are going to be your strongest support system. And the better friends you make, the easier your life will get. Good friends can help you get through almost anything in life, no matter how horrible or painful it is.
Pick your friends wisely if you always hope to have someone to lean on in the days when life gets rough.
 
Stand for something or you fall for anything
 
Never date someone just because you have been single for too long, or because all the people around you keep getting married. Never stay in a relationship that doesn’t feel right just because it’s been too long and it has started to feel uncomfortable.
And never hold on to a person who doesn’t love you exactly the way you deserve to be loved because marriage takes a life time and your happiness is as stake. 
 
You need to know who you are before getting married
When the decision to get married takes place in an unsteady phase of your life, you start counting on your relationship as the central source of all your happiness. And you start to follow in all of your partner’s footsteps without ever stopping to consider whether this is what you actually want from life.

You are capable of doing things alone
Are you still single? Then congratulations! You can go after that dream job or buy that house in the city or travel anywhere in the world without having to get anyone’s approval or help. If you are growing up and are not committed to anyone, you actually have the entire world in your hands to explore and enjoy in the right way though.
You can just do whatever you want and you can even become whoever you want. Being independent is truly a beautiful feeling, one that will make you feel empowered and content in so many different ways. In today’s age, being single can actually be termed a privilege, depending on the way you wish to see it of course.
Enjoy your single hood to the fullest, never leave any stone unturned, go on dates, go for tours, go to the world adventure you ever wished, by the time you are about to get married, you will truly know your readiness percentage cause you have been prepared and very Satisfied about how you've lived your single hood.
Hope it helps.
 

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