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5 THINGS THAT ARE STOPPING YOU FROM FINDING TRUE LOVE


 Exactly the way it should be! - Nicky J.:


How many of us have learned how to build loving lasting relationships? Anyway building love relationships takes continual process, Where did we learn it? At school? At home? Etc. There is consistent methodology to building strong relationships. These are some indispensable keys that will renew your mind in the quest for love.

If you haven’t found true love yet, there might be a pattern, a pattern you’re oblivious or aware  of That has entangled several points altogether and hindering you from finding love.


Societal Preferences:  I’m not saying that you’re not supposed to find hot people attractive don't get me wrong. This society has put all the wrong things in our head. Like, sometimes we just think that if we give an average looking guy a chance with a good personality and a big heart, it will alleviate our social status. Come on, if you find a person who loves you and cares for you, give them a good chance, and go for it if you have the same feelings for them. Forget about what the society thinks. This society only values materialistic things which have no soul, your happiness is your priority.

A sense of responsibility: Many people want to be in relationships, without really having a clue what it is all about or what they're all about. 
Every day, couples get divorced, cranky babies out of wedlock are ignored or, worse, mistreated because the responsibility inherent in marriage life has been exercised in mere relationship which has resulted into pregnancy and because maybe the male isn’t ready for being responsible for kids and wife it results into separation, and the sense of  family relationship is been ignored .
Being able to love and be loved for many years in a good and healthy way takes hard work. It takes sense of responsibility. It's about making a decision not to do things that would wreck your relationship or hurt your partner being selfish when you should help out, not acknowledging or caring about your partner's needs,. It includes big and little things. Love is an action, love is work, and love is a decision.
Without sense of responsibility please don’t venture into the adventure of love because love takes action, and determined decision, without these It could lead to a dysfunctional relationship; people do it all the time. To find love takes hard work, get a sense of responsibility.
 
Out grow your fears and Insecurities: Some people think that hope will destroy them and envisioning the future will only trap them in a dilemma. Although, that has a little hint of fact but the pursuit of love is both a cerebral and physical one and you can’t expect to get true love if you’re not willing to take risks in life. You have to get hurt and you have to bear the brunt of your mistakes and move on in life to achieve something. Lot of people especially the singles around the world who have been hurt and experienced heart break in relationship have found it difficult to fall in love. You need to out grow your fears and insecurities to finding true love.
 
 
Love of Money: Because of too much love of money most people have become very materialistic  in our society today, morals have been taken less important, mostly the ladies are seen dating older men who are married, among the guys too dating older women just for money. Even among the singles so many tend to love the richer guys, not that is bad to fall in love with a rich person when it happens naturally. But please ladies lets watch and pray in quest for life partner and watch out for the right criteria in a prospective partner even if he really doesn’t have much now with you both efforts the future might be bright. So ladies if you find a person who loves you and cares for you, give them a good chance, and go for it if you have the same feelings for them.
PRIDE: These involves  more of the female gender, don’t be too arrogant to consider a man that has a genuine love for you even if he has nothing yet and you are way ahead of him in all aspect. Don’t be too mindful of what people will say, whether he is rich or poor, as long as he has prospects, hardworking and has other positive traits and all, so long you have a soft spot for him and he cares and love you, follow your heart, your happiness and peace of mind matters here.

Hope it helps.
 


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