Thought I should share what I have been learning this periods of my life. that is actually working for me, is good to share right? yes, Your lifestyle is
simply the way you live your life. Basically how you live
consist all aspect of your life it could be physically, financially, spiritually,
morally, and so on. successful lifestyle here has nothing to do with your material possession but the quality of the person you become, how do you
live, do you live an aimless and stagnant life year in year out. You may ask yourself,
why am I living a routine life? Why are my savings not consistent? Why is my
relationship with God not improving? Why are some people successful than others? Why is my marriage not working? Why do
some people make more money and achieve more in the same number of years than
majority? Why do I set goals and unable to achieve them at a stipulated time? Why am I lazy to take a bold step? Why
do I start up a project and along the line abandon it? Why why why? I ask myself this same questions. What is the
secret?
You know what I have
come to discover base on research and studies in all of these, every one
actually wants to be successful, everyone wants to be celebrated, but few
number of people are willing to sacrifice a whole lot. The secret I discover for all of this
successes is simple –“self discipline”.
Self discipline is self control; success is
possible only when you can master your own emotions and inclinations. People
who lack the ability to master their emotions and inclinations become weak
unreliable and frustrated, they tend to give up during trial times that could build and strengthen their will power.
Self discipline is
important to control yourself, your
ability to control yourself and your actions, control what you say and do,
ensure that your behavior are consistent with your long term goals and
objective is the mark or sign of self discipline
Discipline has been
said to be self denial, this requires that you deny yourself the easy
pleasures, the temptations that lead lot of people astray, and instead
discipline yourself to do those things you know are right for long term and
appropriate for the moment.
Success is not
really the material things you accomplish or acquire but the quality of the person you must become to accomplish well above the
average. The development of self discipline is the peak road that makes
everything possible for you. The most important success principle of all was
stated by Elbert Hubbard, a prolific writer in the history of America, , said “ self discipline is the ability to do
what you should do, when you should do it , whether you feel like it or not." it should be an enforced compliance, a systematic method of obtaining obedience from you to you.
Set higher standards for yourself and discipline yourself to act every minute of the day towards this standards as if everyone were watching you. you know what I have actually learnt in the cause of the years people who have been underestimated, let down, disappointed, tend to rise on their feet, to do more for themselves because they want to show that they can actually be what they underestimated them of. Just as self
discipline is key to success, the lack of self discipline is the major cause of
failure, frustration, under achievement, unhappiness and stagnant life. The choice is yours to make.
Hope you find this inspiring.
Hope you find this inspiring.
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