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WHAT STEERS YOUR BOAT

Sometimes, no matter how experienced we are or how much we have accomplished or  how much we love to do something, we all can use a little help to keep going, a bit of motivation in down times can really  be  helpful, for sometime now, I have not written articles to share, all i need was a little motivation to get back to what i love doing, my point is  at one stage or the other,  we need our boat to be steered, check out these key ways to motivate yourself and keep steering your boat. In the face of the inevitable obstacles we encounter, here are ideas that have worked for me, At the end of this post, feel free to comment on what keeps you going in the comment box; Some of these will resonate you. Write down you Goals:  Once you have written out goals, imagine for that moment you can achieve the entire goal on your list if you want them long enough and hard enough. Once you have written out this goal, clearly and specificall...
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SIMPLE TIPS TO INCREASE YOUR PRODUCTIVENESS

            Productiveness and been busy are two different action word, most  times we usually see or know that we are busy doing one thing or the other, but not long ago I found out that am only been busy and not been productive, I kept doing a routine activities, nothing new and constructive, just doing same thing day in day out, I wasn’t happy with myself, because within me something kept telling me I can do better things, I know some people get that talk   instinctively, and all the while ideas pooping in and out without been utilized…you know what I started doing. I started been mindful : mindfulness is a peace mental state achieved by focusing ones awareness on the present moment, calmly acknowledging and accepting ones feelings, thought and sensations, I began to be mindful of my thoughts and ideas that pope into my head. Filter : We often waste time doing unnecessary things and this is because we don’t have clarity. But on...

5 SIMPLE WAYS TO KEEP YOURSELF HAPPY

Hello family, so today I came up with some tips that has been helping me stay happy in a world filled with unavoidable and inevitable problems, worry, greed, poverty, death, etc. Check out some of the ways below: 1.      Expressing gratitude : It produces a positive energy flow which channels you to feel happiness in your heart for blessings large and small, you will instantly relax. Gratitude enables you to fall in love with your life, it heals your mind, your body and your spirit, and it attracts more things to be grateful for. 2 .      Compare yourself with less privilege : Less privilege here doesn’t mean those who are motherless or in orphanages alone but there’s  this saying that says no matter how poor you think you are physically, financially, academically, health wise, etc, you will still find out you are  better than some people, so be grateful and stay happy for your life and rejoice with those who are better. ...

CHECK OUT WAYS TO CONFRONT YOUR FEARS

Fear is that strong, uncontrollable kind of, unpleasant emotion caused by actual or perceived danger or threat. Your ability to confront, deal with and act in spite of your fears is the keys to happiness and success. One of the best exercises you can practice is to identify a person or situation in your life of which you are afraid and resolve to deal with that fear situation immediately. Do not allow it to make you unhappy for another minute. Below are some ways to tackle your fears no matter what it seems to be. IDENTIFY YOUR FEARS When you identify a fear, it could be fear of taking risk, fear of the unknown, fear of falling in love, fear of oh am  I going to be successful, fear of not believing in yourself, fear of even finding true happiness and so many more base on individual, identify and discipline yourself to move towards your fear, it will gradually grow smaller, as it does grow smaller your confidence grows, your fears lose their control over you, b...

5 TIPS ON HOW YOU CAN LIVE A FUFILLED DAY

        With God most important in the picture of your day, this five listed point could help you in achieving a fulfilled day in spite of inevitable challenges you face in any aspect of life, having a fulfilled day doesn't mean you are immune to challenges of the day but it will help you channel your energy positively in the direction of self realization, goals and dream achievement. 1.      BE OPTIMISTIC With God most important in the picture of your day, Optimism is next thing, The day you make yourself understand that somewhere out there in the world, something good awaits you; things will start to get better for you. Life is not an easy path, its tricky business. But you’ll feel more proud of yourself for bearing and disciplining yourself towards the achievement of your goals and being the best version of yourself daily as every little effort of each day adds up to be big results. 2.     ...

SELF DISCIPLINE INDESPENSABLE REQUIREMENT TO SUCCESSFUL LIFESTYLE

      Thought I should share what  I have been learning this periods of my life. that is actually working for me, is good to share right? yes, Your lifestyle is simply the way you live your life. Basically how you live consist  all aspect of your life it could be physically, financially, spiritually, morally, and so on. successful lifestyle here has nothing to do with your material possession but the quality of the person you become, how do you live, do you live an aimless and stagnant life year in year out. You may ask yourself, why am I living a routine life? Why are my savings not consistent? Why is my relationship with God not improving? Why are some people successful than others? Why is my marriage not working? Why do some people make more money and achieve more in the same number of years than majority? Why do I set goals and unable to achieve them at a stipulated time?  Why am I lazy to take a bold step?...

ARE YOU HIS COMFORT ZONE?

To the wives and wives in view.Yay! The burdens of life weigh heavily upon the shoulders of men since they are responsible for maintaining and supporting their families. In fulfilling this responsibility, the man of the household must confront many problems and obstacles outside of the home. Some of these problems may be the pressures of work, the hassles of traffic and commuting from the office to home, concerns over economical and political issues of the day, empathy and concern for friends and colleagues, and the pressures of trying to improve the living conditions of his family. The amount of preoccupations and pressures upon a responsible man is enormous and multifaceted. It is no wonder that the average lifespan of a man is less than the woman. As women we have been built with some traits to acts as good wives to our husbands, but I need to ask: Are you his Comfort zone? May be you were, how can I be his comfort zone again? Simply read on this 3 ways among others. ...